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Your child says they’re trans. You don’t believe affirming it will help, and you don’t want to lose them either.

That’s the position most parents are in when they find me. You’ve read the studies. You know what the medical interventions do. And none of it has made the next conversation with your child any easier.

ROGD Repair is a self-paced course and community that teaches an emotionally intelligent approach to parenting teens and young adults who are confused about their gender. It’s built on psychology, family systems, and communication strategy, not on culture-war arguments, because arguments don’t work on your kid.

You don’t have to choose between blind affirmation and open warfare. There’s a third way, and it can be learned.

What you get

Everything in one program

So you can stop assembling your own curriculum from books and podcasts.

Watch or listen120+ video lessonsWatch, or listen like a podcast on the go. Each one covers a psychology or communication concept and how it applies to a child like yours.
ReadEssaysWritten pieces that go deeper than the videos, sometimes covering ground the videos don’t.
ApplyReflection questionsHomework at the end of each lesson, to apply the concept to your own child rather than a hypothetical one. Write your answers in, or talk them through with your spouse.
Any hourRepairBotAn AI trained on the whole curriculum, plus my podcast and coaching transcripts from families who consented. Talk or type, any hour, in 40+ languages. Use it to think through a hard moment before you respond to your kid.
TogetherCommunityDiscussion on every lesson, plus forums where parents work through this together. You’ll see how other families are applying the same tools.
Stephanie Winn
Who’s teaching this

Stephanie Winn, LMFT

I’m Stephanie Winn, a licensed marriage and family therapist. I practiced the gender-affirming model in good faith, in a clinic, for four years, and slowly came to see the damage it does. I’ve since spent years working directly with parents in your position, hundreds of them, across every kind of family and situation. This program is what came out of that work.

What parents say

“I was able to use your words of wisdom in instances where there would have been a big fight, and turn those situations into calm, successful interactions.”
Karen, NYC
“I am confident that this course has kept us from saying and doing things we would have regretted.”
Christy C., Santa Cruz, CA
“Only a month into learning these concepts, they have already helped us to have conversations we should have had long ago.”
Courtney S., Boston, MA
Not sure if this is you?

Which kind of ROGD parent are you?

Parents come to this from very different places. Some are newly blindsided; some have been managing it for years. Some have a daughter at home, some a son who’s already moved out. What helps you depends a great deal on which of those you are.

Take the quiz. A few minutes, and you’ll get your parenting profile, the patterns that tend to come with it, and the lessons in the course most worth your time.

or start with something free
Free downloadTwelve Things Parents Kick Themselves ForThe regrets I hear most often from parents, and what to do instead.
Free meditation · 10 minThe Long GameA guided meditation for when the worry won’t stop.
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The full curriculum

120+ lessons, added to regularly

Other ways to work with me

One-on-one coaching

ROGD Repair is built on my coaching work with hundreds of families. For parents who want that hands-on, space is limited and it runs alongside the program.

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